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Friday, November 02, 2018

Remembering Them on All Soul's Day


In the Philippines, the Araw ng Mga Patay is celebrated with a big fuss. It is a tradition that we Filipinos (especially the Catholics) observed every year. Araw ng mga Patay means Day of the Dead is also called Todos Los Santos, Fiesta ng Patay, Pista sa Kalag (in IrigueƱo), and Undas. November 1 is All Saint’s Day and November 2 is All Soul’s Day a holiday in the Philippines ever since I remember.

It is the time wherein the families remember and honor their love ones who had already departed. Aside from the flowers and lighted candles, people also offer mass and prayers for the repose of their soul.

Filipinos treated this holidays like a festive event and more like as a family reunion because it is an opportunity for families to bond together. People from different places go back to their provinces to celebrate the Undas.

In our family, the preparation for Undas started few days before November 1st. My cousin and her children went to the cemetery to clean the family mausoleum They did some repairs and repainted the walls and the tombs.

 

Early morning of November 1st, we went to market to buy flowers and foods to be brought to the cemetery. My cousin who is gifted with the art of flower arrangement did the work and she did it beautifully with ease.

It was my sister’s first All Soul’s Day so we were a bit emotional (it always was whenever we visit her) when we arrived at the memorial park.


If you have a religious family like us, prayer is the highlight of the Undas. Aside from the flowers, candles and foods that we brought, praying together as one family is the best we can offer to them.

After we offered our prayer to our  loved ones, we also visited the graves of our other relatives and friends who had passed away before us.

This tradition teaches us that even though they already passed away we should always remember and show our love for them. It also tells us that we must show our love and respect to our love ones when they are still alive and not when they're already gone.


Sunday, October 28, 2018

Looking Back

Reflection

It has been a while since my last post (almost three years actually). And yes, I’ve been busy. My life had been a series of roller coasters that so many things took place in the last years. Looking back, I could say that it was been a very fruitful years for me and at the same time a years of trials and sorrow.

Few of the good things that happened to me was that I was hired as an employee by a government agency which had given me more financial rewards and benefits and I have met a lot of new friends from my current employment who became very dear to me. I was able to pay my debts which I incurred during my previous employment (because they’re not paying us on time). I enrolled and finished Methods of Teaching (as I plan to become a teacher someday). And I was able to pursue my studies in Law after stopping for five years (hopefully to graduate in 2020).

I fell in love and hurt. I fell from a stair and hurt my elbow; I was in pain for days and in a cast for two weeks just so lucky that my elbow wasn’t fractured. 

The most dreadful thing that happened to me and to my family was the passing of our youngest sister Joan. She was diagnosed with gastrointestinal tuberculosis and after 6 months of treatments she died last February this year at 31 years old. It was a very hard and trying time for us and it hurt us so badly seeing her suffering and we could not do anything to ease her pain. It saddened us very much that she left us but we felt relieved because we know that she is already at peace and not in pain anymore. 

My sister was survived by her eight-year-old daughter and I became an instant mother – which I accepted wholeheartedly. I am planning on legally adopting her and making her my own. 

As I reflect on these memories, I realized that I have so many things to be thankful. There were happy moments and unfortunate ones. I can say that all those things that happened to me made me a better person than before. It also gave me a more purpose in life by giving me a daughter that I will love and care for the rest of my life (although I have been loving her before as my niece).

Monday, November 16, 2015

Of Age and Marriage

Of Age and Marriage

When I chanced to meet long-missed friends and acquaintances, they’re usual questions to me were: “Where’s your husband?” How many children do you have?” I found it funny that when every time I answered “None, I ‘m still single.” They would look at me like I am from another planet or that being unmarried at the age of thirty seven is a heinous crime.
 
The bad side of advancing in years and still remaining single is you worry a lot of people. The worse side is you acquire a lot of matchmakers to worry about. Even though I told them several times to but off, my matchmakers never failed to introduce me to almost eligible bachelors they know. They told me that I should be married at my age and having children. Those matchmakers, some of them were my aunts, who have but good intentions – to get me down the aisle while my step can match the tunes of the latest wedding ballads and gave me the same old arguments that my body clock is ticking very fast now that I might not conceive a baby anymore.

There were times that I find it very annoying everytime they do it especially when I was completely off-guard. In every occasions they never failed to introduced me to a new guy and it pisses me off when they forced me to have a relationships to those guys they introduced me to as if it’s just so easy. They haven’t realized that being in a force relationship is very wrong and rushing into marriage and is like calling for a huge disaster in the future. 


Being single has its ups and downs but I am happy right now. If the time comes that there’ someone who comes along, why not? Marriage for me is not about being late. It’s about being ready for what lies ahead.


Thursday, November 12, 2015

Is The Food You Eat Safe?



Healthy Food
In today’s highly competitive food industry, attractiveness, taste, economy and profitability are all special factors for a financial success. Additives, preservatives and artificial flavoring can contribute for the gain of the listed factors.

Nowadays, as a consumer we are all prompted to unsound nutrition claims for almost all kinds of media such as radio, newspapers, magazines and even high billboards across highways as well as other media commercials.

Come to think of it, most of the products that are advertised are processed foods. And if you take time to read the labels, you will noticed that most of them, if not all have some chemical additives or preservatives. While others, are synthetically produced. Even non-processed foods like fruits and vegetables are often treated with chemicals to preserve from spoilage.

Colas, chips, and even health drinks which according to some advertisers have “nutritive value”, do not even ft into the food group. It is because they are collectively called junk foods. Fruit shakes and crunchers enhanced by food coloring are also considered as junk foods.

There are also some bogus “health product” that is aid to boost energy, increase strength and endurance, and improve memories. But clearly, these are junk foods that mean to be regulated by the government.

So, is the food you’re eating right now is safe to eat?
 

Sunday, December 21, 2014

Frozen Christmas in Iriga City

Frozen Christmas

It's a "Frozen" movie theme Christmas here in Iriga City. As the entrance of the city park were decorated by Queen Elsa's ice castle and Queen Elsa herself, with Olaf and her side and Sven the reindeer it is definitely worth melting for.

Santa is also present
Queen Elsa

Kids and the kids at heart loves to go there to take some photos and enjoy the view. My sister and niece went there last night but with so many people around wanted to take photos we just decided to stroll along the park and eat at the food kiosks around.


Trees around the city park were adorned by big Christmas lanterns hanging in their branches which give dazzling lights at night. I heard those Christmas lanterns were made by the inmates in the Iriga City District Jail.

*some of the photos are not mine.


Sunday, October 12, 2014

Dinner With Friends @ Desny Grill

My friend Fritz who just arrived for vacation from Spain last week invited me and some of our friends to dinner last night at Desny Grill. It is a cafe and resto-bar in 1 located in San Nicolas, Iriga City which serve good food but very affordable especially if you eat with groups.

Although it was raining last night, the resto-bar was full-packed because it was a Saturday. And every weekends there was a live band performing to entertain the guests. I saw many familiar faces who were also dining there. Oh well, if you're living in a small city chances are you know all the people living there.


Dinner @ Desny Grill



We ordered inihaw sa bilao, buttered chicken, sizzling liver, chopsuey and sinigang na tuna.

Chopsuey

Chopsuey is worth P250.00 on a large platter and is good for 8 - 10 persons

Sinigang na Tuna



An order of Sinigang na Tuna costs P250.00 and is already good for 6 - 8 persons. It has kangkong, eggplant and radish and you can really taste the "asim" of the real sinigang.



After eating, we stayed a while to catch up with one another as we all seldom see each other because we are all busy in our own life.



I Missed Blogging

I Missed Blogging

Hello everyone. It has been over a year since the last time I posted in this blog. I was so busy with everything personally and professionally. Aside from my work and studies I am also busy with Bubblews. Bubblews is a website where you can share your thoughts and you get paid for every views, likes and comments you received. Redemption is through Paypal. The pay is good but these days we are experiencing delay in payments but I hope they will settle it soon as Bubblews is a good site to write because you don't need to be a good writer to earn there. Just share your thoughts, ideas or opinions in 400 characters (not words) in your own words and you're ready to earn.

But I missed blogging here so I decided to return and revive my blog. I hope it is not yet too late as I also have so many adventures to share in the world wide web.


Friday, June 21, 2013

Katnga - Hot & Spicy

Katnga is our vernacular term for ginataang laing. It is a favorite Bicolano dish made of dried taro leaves and coconut cream.

Katnga/Ginataang Laing

There are many versions of Katnga. You can use shrimp, fish meat, crab meat, pork meat, chicken meat or just plain alamang as ingredient. And let's not forget the big chilies for a little spice.

Saturday, June 15, 2013

Love's Meaning

Love's Meaning

Love is what makes you bloom
Don't take it away, It shall wither the flower of your life.
Leaving you as dead as black winter.
Love is what makes you strong
Don't take it away, it shall break the strength of your will to live
A life as glowing as the sun on a bright day.

Love is what makes you see
The infinite beauty of the heaven's above you
Don't take it away, it shall drive you
To a world so impenetrably dark and gloomy.
Love is the only sentinel
In your castle of dreams
Don't take it away, it shall shatter your dreams
into a harsh reality.

Love makes you bloom and strong
Love makes you hope and see
Love is the only sentinel in your world so carefree and gay.
Take love away from you
I'll find you a withered flower
Easily broken as a dry leafless tree
As cold as the arms of a lifeless lover.


Photo source: google 

 

Sunday, June 02, 2013

Bag Charms

I spent my free days making bag charms for the last three months using different kinds of beads and charms and sold it to my friends and office mates. I did sold a lot since these bag charms are quite unique. Here are some of the photos of my finished products.


Bag Charms


 


Thanks for viewing.

Friday, May 31, 2013

Typewriter/ABC Wednesday



T is for Typewriter

Typewriter
 

This old typewriter is over 30 years old and still in very good condition. Found this one in my new office at the Local Government Unit of Iriga City where I am currently employed. I read somewhere that typewriters were no longer produced as it became obsolete with the use of the computers. But before there were computers, typewriters ruled the office as early as the 18th Century.




Linking to ABC Wednesday


Saturday, May 25, 2013

Jaja's Birthday

My niece Jamela Andrecel celebrated her 3rd birthday last May 23, but we decided to have a simple birthday party for her today since it is a Saturday. With some kids from the neighborhood as the guests the party was a success. Here's some of the the photos.


Some wacky shots.


Blowing of the candles.


A party will not be complete without the foods.


With her guests.




Wednesday, May 15, 2013

No Time to Update

Hello dear readers, Just so thankful that I'd be able to update my poor blog again. March, April and May were a very busy months for me as I have to review for my final exams in Law school, adjusting to my new job, a wedding preparation for my brother. But the truth is these were only excuses why I didn't updated my blog. The real reason is that my computer was busted. (hehehe). Just so happy that everything is okay so guys, I'M BACK!

Tuesday, February 12, 2013

Tinagba Festival 2013

The 11th day of February is always a festive day to us IrigueƱos as we celebrate the Tinagba Festival in our City. It also coincides with the feast our Our Lady of Lourdes.

As always, the city was flooded by many visitors from the nearby town and different parts of the Bicol region to witnessed the event. This was also a red-letter day in Iriga since the President Pnoy declared it as a Special Non-Working Day. I also saw a lot of foreigners who came to watched too, which also shows that tourism is booming in the city.

I, my sister Joan and my niece Jaja went to the city proper to watched the bullcart caravan, float parade as well as the street dancing competition.

Here are some snapshots of the festivities.


Tinagba Festival 2013

The Tribal Community also joined the festivities.


Tinagba Festival 2013: Tribal Community

The bullcart caravan where members of the community paraded with carabao-drawn carts decorated to represent their sector. Also in the bullcart is their Tagba or alay to our Inang Lourdes.


Tinagba Festival 2013: Bullcart Caravan

Clowns in their colorful costumes and happy faces also joined the parade. The children watching made a delighting squeal of pleasure upon seeing the clowns doing their tricks.


Tinagba Festival 2013: Clowns in colorful costumes

This year Tinagba also featured a dazzling display of floats creatively made from indigenous materials. From what I observed this year's team is Fantasy. From the fairy tales world.


Tinagba Festival 2013: Float Parade

Tinagba Festival 2013:  Float Parade

Credits to Sante CaƱal for some of the pictures I used in this post.
                                                                                                                         

Tuesday, December 11, 2012

One Boring Day

Boredom may lead you to anything. As for myself, boredom is the reason why these paper flowers were made. Hope these looks like flowers too you.

boredom can make you creative

Folded paper

This post is linked to ABC Wednesday and Color Connection.




Friday, December 07, 2012

Bicol Express for Lunch

FTFBadge

 My brother Jonathan came home from Manila for a 2 days vacation.And he requested Bicol Express as his ulam for lunch with lots of siliiiiiiiii. Later on, he decided to cook it himself. YUM YUM YUM!

Bicol Express with lots of Siliii

Super hot Bicol Express



Indulge it guys!



Slice of Heaven


 
A small slice of heaven!
If only people could see how truly wonderful life could be.
Do what is good.
Do what is right, then you will have your slice of life.


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Thursday, December 06, 2012

Amazing Pinya

I went to the market to buy some fruits last night. And oh my gulay! Look what I have found? A pineapple with many crowns.. 25 to be exact.

pineapples
The vendor, Manay Anding refused to have it sold so I just took a picture of it.

Smile






Isn't that amazing! Pwede na pang Guiness! ♥♥♥